Why Making A Difference Is Not What You Think?  #5MinMotivation


We hear it being said often that people want to, “make a difference”.  What does that actually mean?  When we think of making a difference, we tend to measure it on a grand scale.  We focus on making an impact to the lives of many.  We don’t need to over complicate what making a difference looks like.  Often, it is the power of a simple gesture.


This post is inspired by a Loren Eiseley story, “The Star Thrower”.  It sends a message of what Making a Difference is about:


The Star Thrower

A man was walking on the beach one day and noticed a boy who was reaching down, picking up a starfish and throwing it in the ocean.  As he approached, he called out, “Hello!  What are you doing?”  The boy looked up and said, “I’m throwing starfish into the ocean”.  “Why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?” asked the man.  “The tide stranded them.  If I don’t throw them in the water before the sun comes up, they’ll die” came the answer.  “Surely you realize that there are miles of beach, and thousands of starfish.  You’ll never throw them all back, there are too many.  You can’t possibly make a difference.”  The boy listened politely, then picked up another starfish.  As he threw it back into the sea, he said, “It made a difference for that one.”


What the boy understood is that it wasn’t about making a difference to all the thousands of starfish that laid on the beach.  He did what he could to make a difference even to one.  It wasn’t about throwing them all back into the ocean, it was about doing what he could in that moment.


If you can’t feed a hundred people, then feed just one. ~Mother Teresa


Sometimes, we tell ourselves that once we are rich, we will be able to donate to a cause.  Once we get that promotion, we will be able to spend more time with our family.  We all have the power to make a positive difference today, even in a small way.   Often, it is the little ripples over time that makes the biggest impact.  A warm gesture to a stranger or some quality time with your kid can be imprinted in their memory forever.


[tweetthis]Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does. -William James[/tweetthis]


This week’s #5MinMotivation is about the challenge of Making a Difference.  What will be your starfish today?  This week?


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2 thoughts on “Why Making A Difference Is Not What You Think?  #5MinMotivation

  1. Thank you so much Elita. This provides such an important reminder, that really hits home for me. In my role as a caregiver for the elderly. I sometimes find myself feeling overwhelmed by the big picture, staffing issues pertaining to quality and the sheer numbers needed to provide a consistently high level of care. Thank you for the wonderful post and the powerful reminder of one star at a time…

    1. Robert, I am so honored that the post touched home. Taking care of the elderly is such an important role in the world. It is not an easy job, but one of such importance. Thank you again for the comment.

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